Kory and I tried really hard this year not to spend a lot of money. But somehow, there was still an overwhelming abundance of presents under the tree.
I always wrestle a little with how much to give our kids, how to help them be grateful, and when it's ok to splurge a little too.
I think as parents, it's so fun to get just the right thing for your kids. I always love giving my kids gifts. But it never fails that my joy of giving is never quite as equally matched as they experience the "get" part of the presents. I know they are just kids, but it makes my heart a little sad to watch as they rip through the paper to get to the gift and then move right along to the next thing.
This year more than others, I realize that I want to help change that...somehow.
I want to start good traditions in our home. That is something we haven't quite nailed down yet. I want them to be things that facilitate thankfulness, generosity& graciousness.
I need to process that a little more.
Christmas night we spend at the Merrills in Jammies with soup. Its always a fun time with cousins. The kids were wiped out and so Shaun the Sheep was a wonderful little quiet activity...
baby Dale with Kate and Joel |
This is how you know it was a good day. |
Christmas Eve at my Grandmother's house. The kids hand out gifts while my dad plays Santa.
i'm glad you posted these!
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